Don't Say "NO" To Rules
Proverbs 1:8--"My son, hear the instruction of thy father,
and forsake not the law of thy mother."
Proverbs 3:1-2--"My son, forget not my law;
but let thine heart keep my commandments:
For length of days, and long life, and peace,
shall they add to thee."
Several years ago, I clipped a newspaper article with the headline "Teen study: Rules lower use of drugs." This Associated Press article said the following in several interesting quotes: "Parents who impose strict rules on their teenagers have a better chance of raising drug-free children, but most set few guidelines or none at all." "The study [ done by the National Center on Addiction and Substance Abuse ] shows that teenagers who live in highly structured households are at a low risk of abusing drugs."
One of the great heartbreaks of modern society is when teens abuse drugs. Teens are ruining their lives because they have adopted an out-of-control lifestyle that supposedly liberates them to do as they wish. But the Bible is clear that rules ( or "laws" as Proverbs says ) help eliminate trouble for young people. Rules produce a system of controls. This system protects lives from destructive tendencies that seek to control.
Children and teenagers have a tendency to resist when parents establish and enforce rules. The Bible clearly says, however, that by following rules, young people have the promise not only of a longer life but also a peaceful life. Rules are not designed to hurt, harm, or hinder, but rather to help. Young people who understand the importance of rules will enjoy much freedom in growing up to be all that God desires.
God knew what He was talking about when He allowed parents to establish rules. Young person, as you grow older, you will have to make the choice to say "no" to drugs; but never allow yourself to be guilty of saying "no" to rules.
Action Point: Discuss what life would be like if you could drive a car for 24 hours without any stop signs.
--Tom Palmer--
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